The Culture That Is America: Fading Fast or Worth Fighting For?

Grateful to Be Here, Among People

Lately, I’ve felt deeply grateful — not just to be alive, but to be surrounded by people. Friends, family, strangers — all of humanity adds something to the richness of life.

During a recent workshop, I raised an idea: even the person we might dislike contributes to our well-being. That stranger you don’t get along with? They might be managing a store that ensures your groceries reach your doorstep. Our collective needs shape the world around us. We are more interconnected than we realize.

The person who honked angrily in traffic, who doesn’t look how we expect, who eats or dresses differently — each one helps build the mosaic that is America.

What Is the Culture of America?

At first, I thought many of us who arrive in America from other parts of the world bring along emotional baggage — prejudices, caste and class attitudes, superiority complexes, victim mentalities — and we don’t leave them at the border. Instead of embracing the freedom this land offers, we recreate the very structures of oppression and division we fled from.

But then I looked deeper — at long-time residents, the so-called “majority.” I saw division there too. Infighting. Identity conflicts. Power struggles. Political fragmentation. Even those who’ve been here for generations seemed to be drifting from a shared sense of culture.

And from that reflection emerged a simple but potent truth:

America’s culture is a culture of effort. Of building one’s life through purposeful work. Of minding one’s own business and letting others do the same.

In every religion, every ethnicity, every shade of skin, there are people who do good, and those who do harm. But we often forget this. We’re drawn to those who look like us, and that affinity can blind us to fairness and truth. It leads to groupism, favoritism, and resistance to unity.

The Real American Ethic: Effort Over Entitlement

When we embrace the true culture of America — to strive, to build, to earn, and to uplift ourselves — this truth becomes clear: life flourishes when grounded in responsibility.

In many parts of the world, life is mortgaged to social expectations, misunderstood sacrifice, or false compassion. These obligations often masquerade as moral duties, draining the productive for the benefit of the entitled — whether in politics, business, or among the poor.

When I came to America, I felt something I hadn’t before: freedom. And from India, I brought something essential: responsibility.

Letting go of the belief that I owed something to those who simply chose not to try — that was liberating. I realized that giving to others must be a choice, not an obligation. Compassion isn’t compliance.

Freedom Needs Responsibility — Or It Will Vanish

The strongest cultures are built not on charity alone, but on earned living, self-respect, and productive contribution.

Perhaps the boomer generation in America understood this well. They lived the balance of responsibility and freedom. But in their love, they overcorrected — giving too much to their children and grandchildren. And in that comfort, seeds of entitlement were sown.

I learned something invaluable from them — not just the strength of freedom, but how it is preserved:

By pairing freedom with responsibility — and knowing clearly what we are and are not responsible for.

I don’t know if I could’ve learned this anywhere else. America became my own, not by accident, but by realization.

The Culture We Must Protect

To protect America is not just to defend borders. It is to defend her culture — a culture where:

• People earn their way

• Live meritoriously

• Give charitably by choice, not by pressure

• Resist being exploited in the name of need

This culture is, and always has been, under attack. In America, it survived longer than most. But that survival is no longer guaranteed.

The shift is happening — from producers to receivers, from effort to entitlement, from merit to dependence. This shift has undone countless cultures. America is not immune.

We Shape the Culture — With Every Choice

Culture isn’t static. It’s alive — shaped daily by our choices, our values, and our actions.

If we want to keep the beacon of freedom alive, we must hold on to the roles that made this land exceptional:

• The independent thinker

• The self-driven entrepreneur

• The builder

• The responsible citizen

These are not just romantic ideals — they are necessities.

A Final Reflection

When you fully understand what this culture — the culture that is America — really is, you see it as one of the greatest gifts in human history. And when you understand that, you cannot help but revere her. And fight, not with violence, but with conviction, to protect her.

We all have a choice.

Let it fade… or fight to keep it.