Spiderman’s love life—his struggle with the person he cares for, always worrying that she would be in harm’s way if they were together—moves me deeply. He is torn between wanting to protect her from the dangers that surround him and missing her presence as a partner. This constant push and pull, the desire to be with someone you love while fearing for their safety, captures the heart-wrenching reality of love entangled with responsibility and sacrifice.
New Year’s Day - 2022
On the first day of the new year, our apartment complex faced a drainage block that connected to the city’s sewer system. Despite the pouring rain, an elderly gentleman, a sanitary worker, worked tirelessly for hours to help us out of the situation. The problem still isn’t fully resolved, but the nature of his work, his struggle, and the resilience of our apartment watchmen, who endured the stench as their station is near the leak, deeply moved me. It left me with a heart full of pain and immense gratitude.
This experience prompted me to delve deeper into the lives of these incredible people. What I discovered broke my heart. In India, it is estimated that three people die every five days due to direct contact with human waste—feces, poisonous gases—while working without any protective gear. These workers are grossly underpaid and, to make matters worse, they carry the stigma of being seen as the lowest in society.
There are initiatives to mechanize this type of cleaning work, but we still have a long way to go to eliminate the needless physical and emotional suffering of these essential members of our society.
For a detailed report on their situation, you can visit:
In late 2019, the tragic news of the murders of three mothers and their six children shook the world. It was a chilling reminder of the darkness that sometimes overshadows humanity. This heartbreaking event also reminded me to reach out to an old friend, Preston Tucker, and a few others who had once been part of my journey.
When I reached out to Preston, I had no idea of the incredible progress he had made in his life. We had met years ago at a seminar, both of us seeking growth and understanding. Though we eventually left that course at different times—he, earlier than I did—our friendship endured. We shared common values, particularly our commitment to humanity and the pursuit of human excellence.
What I discovered about Preston’s life and the community he had built through sheer hard work, common sense, and love for his family, was nothing short of inspiring. It still is. Among my dear friends who support my projects, Preston is among the first and most steadfast.
Preston had been inviting me to visit his home in Mexico for years, and for one reason or another, I always postponed. Finally, this year, I made the journey. My visit has deeply reinforced two truths that I’ve always known:
1. True Faith conquers fear.
2. Perfect Love casts out fear.
These truths became even more evident as I observed the way of life led by Preston and his friends and family. Their story is one of resilience, hard work, and unshakable faith.
Preston’s ancestors, along with others, came to Mexico from the United States generations ago. They established their lives by purchasing land and working tirelessly. They took on any job they could find, often engaging in hard physical labor in the U.S., and always included the local native Mexicans in their initiatives. They made the land fertile, not just for themselves but for those around them as well, creating opportunities and fostering a spirit of community.
Despite facing violence and hardship, they fought back peacefully, standing firm in their convictions. Their youth are raised to be hands-on from a young age—working hard on the land, caring for their siblings, and building a strong work ethic. Preston welcomed me into a summer camp with their youth, offering me a deeper insight into their values and way of life.
As a “thank you note” to Preston and his family and friends—nearly 5,000 people strong—we are organizing a special screening of the recently completed pilot film Enga Ooru Kaattilae - In the Jungle of Our Village on August 9th, 2021, at 6 pm local time. Seventy percent of the contributions will go to support the youth of this remarkable community.
Utilizing the wealth of informal work I’ve done alongside my corporate career, I have emerged as:
1. Psychologist, Coach, and Speaker who respects and honors both traditional and modern bodies of work.
2. Filmmaker and Actor in films that uplift humanity, human excellence, and dignity, supported by immersive storytelling and technical excellence.
3. Writer, producing works that align with these same values.
4. Organizational Development Advisor and Mentor, dedicated to promoting humanity and human excellence within institutions.
On August 9th, I will be conducting a two-day workshop titled “This & That,” with 70% of the proceeds going to Preston’s community in recognition of the beautiful, humane experience they have provided me.
To my heart's content, I have authored a book, "Wonderchild Within Us,'. I am officially releasing it through Preston Tucker and Elsie Liddiard—great pillars of the community.
Dear Preston, Friends, and Family,
Thank you for being a center of light in a world that often feels dark. Your example of faith, love, and resilience is a beacon for all who seek a better, more humane world.
With gratitude,
Citizen KK