Doubt

தேரான் தெளிவும் தெளிந்தான்கண் ஐயுறவும்

தீரா இடும்பைத் தரும்.

The incomplete thinker, in arrogance, stands tall,

The clear thinker in doubt stalls, both to endless misery do fall.

-Thirukkural

People often have personalized reasons for doubting a decision or a subject, even after initially feeling clear about it. A common underlying factor for these doubts appears to be fear.

This fear might stem from the possibility of loss if the outcome doesn’t meet expectations, fear of opposition from others, or fear of damaging one’s self-image. There may also be fears related to physical pain or harm.

Take any live example from your life and evaluate it. See how fear might be influencing your doubts and decisions.

Happy introspecting!

#CitizenKK

#Thirukkural

#Kamaraj

Boredom & Love

Recently, someone sent me an image from the internet, and though I’m not sure who created it, I am grateful to its maker. The image made me reflect deeply on what it represents.

Boredom, to me, indicates a disconnection of the mind from the SELF.

We all experience boredom from time to time, largely because we tend to connect our minds to external things for happiness. For example, we watch our favorite movie or eat ice cream to feel happy.

A person who relies entirely on external sources for happiness is easily bored. When they don’t get what they want, boredom sets in, leading to a downward spiral of emotions and attitudes.

On the other hand, the upward spiral occurs when the mind is connected to the SELF and actively engaged in positive worldly work.

As the mind becomes more and more connected to the SELF, it starts to realize an innate joy, allowing one to be happy in all circumstances.

As this connection deepens and the mind works toward the welfare of others, love grows. This growth of love springs forth unexpected courage—the courage to do the right thing—as the mind begins to identify less with itself and the body. This, I believe, is true courage.

It stems from the growing realization that *I am that SELF*, and thus, I am not disturbed by emotional distractions or the pursuit of bodily pleasures and avoidance of pain.

I believe it is essential to teach our children about the “physics” of emotions—understanding what causes emotions—and to cultivate in them the character to say “No” to things that create the illusion that happiness comes from outside.

When should we start teaching our kids? Ideally, right from the moment we decide we want children, even before conception. But it’s better late than never. How we are as individuals shapes and transforms our kids. That’s the foundation.

It’s no easy task, but it is essential.

#CitizenKK

#Kamaraj

#Love

#Boredom

#Depression

What does it mean to be a renunciate?

துறந்தார் பெருமை துணைக்கூறின் வையத்து

இறந்தாரை எண்ணிக்கொண் டற்று.

If we are to describe the greatness of a person who is a renunciate, it is equivalent to counting the number of people who have died in this world.

#Thirukkural

I have been pondering over this profound verse from the Thirukkural for a while now.

A renunciate is often misunderstood as someone who gives up worldly things. However, true renunciation goes beyond merely abandoning material possessions. In fact, someone who leads an ethical family life often contributes more to society than those who claim to have renounced everything worldly but live as half-saints.

A renunciate is one who understands the true nature of relationships and, therefore, is mentally and emotionally free from the notion that external things, actions, results, or people can provide a sense of completion/emotion. Such a person can enjoy riches, fame, and all that life offers without being bound by them.

When we attempt to do something to quell a restless feeling within us, we often end up aggravating that restlessness. Ambiguous priorities can cause us to lose sight of the purpose of life and the essence of our character. It is my ardent wish that we all succeed in this journey of life, moving towards our next destination, whatever it may be.

When we act from a place of clear values, understanding that nothing outside can complete us because we are already complete, our work shines. More importantly, it does not bind or enslave us.

Sincerely wishing all of us such a condition! 🙏🏾👍

Create a beautiful day!

#CitizenKK #Kamaraj #Renunciate